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When dining out in a restaurant there is a certain level of service we expect from the serving staff, but this server went above and beyond to make sure that the customers at his table enjoyed a great dining experience.
What he thought of as a simple gesture ended up having a huge impact on one man and his mother. The story of the cute waiter's work ended up in a post written by the mother.
1 Meet Lee
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Lee Bondurant is a 51-year-old man who lives in Raleigh, North Carolina, and has cerebral palsy.
A cerebral palsy is a group of permanent movement disorders that appear in early childhood. Symptoms vary between people and often change over time. Despite his disability, Lee is quite independent but sometimes needs help eating when his hands are experiencing shivers.
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2 Lee Went Out For Dinner With His Mother One Night
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For dinner, they decided to try the 42nd Street Oyster Bar. Their waiter, a young man named Five, noticed that Lee's mom, Linda, was having trouble feeding him in the restaurant.
In an interview with ABC, he said: "Seafood is best eaten hot, so I didn't want her food to get cold. I didn't want his food to get cold. I just wanted to help a fellow man out."
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3 Five respectfully offered to help him
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"He came up with a show and asked me if he's ever had oysters," Linda explained in an ABC interview. "Lee told him he didn't. So five asked him if he could serve him first. It was easy not to embarrass me. Just offered to take part in the experiment."
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4 I don't usually let people he doesn't know well feed him
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Despite the fact that he usually does not like to be fed by people with whom he is not familiar, he agreed to let Five help him.
Linda snapped a picture of it as it happened and ended up sharing her experience at the restaurant in a Facebook post that has since been shared more than 1,400 times and has gone viral.
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5 Five have no Facebook and no idea about the post
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Five, who works two jobs to help pay for college, started getting to know him when he was out in public. Someone even wanted to buy him gas when they saw him at the gas station, and they had no idea why people acted this way towards him.
His boss filled him in with the fact that his cute act had gained a lot of attention online.
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6 The Restaurant Has Become A Favorite of Lee And Linda's
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Lee decided to celebrate his birthday at the 42nd St. Oyster Bar. Dining can be a difficult experience for people with disabilities, so naturally, they love going to a place where people are caring and helpful.
In her ABC interview, Linda explained that Lee hopes that more people can learn the importance of treating people with special needs with respect and kindness instead of pity.
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7 Lee is really glad he got five
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From that first meeting, Fife and Lee got close and became friends with me. He told me that their meeting proves that there are still good people in the world.
With all the interest the story gained, people from all over the world started sending letters to Five, some of which contained money. He put five of the money he got into a fund set up in Lee's name for the Cerebral Palsy Foundation.
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Facts about the big dog that pet owners should be aware of.
From puppy to seniority, owning a dog can be fun. A vital part of being a successful dog owner is understanding their needs at every stage of life. Depending on the breed, canines can become quite old at the age of six. Increased dental needs, decreased immune system, and temperature sensitivity is just a few of the changes your aging dog may experience. To help ensure your furry friend thrives as a boss, here are a few things to keep in mind.
8 They are not as active as they used to be
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Although it seems obvious that elderly dogs will not be active, it is easy to forget this fact when playing a game of fetch or for a walk. Certified Canine Rehabilitation Specialist Barbara Butler says that large dogs often lose strength on their hind legs.
She adds that some may even lose the ability to tell where their feet are. That's why it's important to make sure your dog is doing age-appropriate activities that keep fit without overstepping his bounds.
Read about ways to keep your older dog happy!
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9 Massages That Can Soothe Joint Pain
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The American Kennel Club promotes dog massage as a way to soothe muscle and joint pain, especially for dogs with arthritis. Rubbing and kneading can increase blood circulation, but it is important to be gentle and attentive to your pet's reactions.
Avoid applying too much pressure, and this is evident if your dog is swinging, yelling, gnawing at you, or turning away. The massage should be very relaxing and may help pets with anxiety. It may also be given before and after activity to help prevent injury.
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10 They Benefit Most From Mental Games
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Since large dogs are generally less active, this can result in them spending many hours lounging around doing nothing. To make sure your older dog is entertained and challenged, be sure to play mentally stimulating games with them.
One prime example is the hide and seeks game. Hide treats around the house while telling your dog to stay. When you're ready, say "find" and watch as your dog uses his sense of smell to locate treats. Toys like this help to keep your pet sharp without stressing them overly.
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11 They may need semi-annual health checks
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As elderly dogs are becoming more susceptible to health problems, it is essential to take them for a health check-up at least once a year. Some experts, such as the American Animal Hospital Association, recommend taking large dogs every six months.
These bi-annual health checks consist of a thorough check of everything from your dog's temperature to their digestive function. The AAHA encourages pet owners to inform their vet of their pet's activity levels and movement habits so they can properly screen for conditions such as arthritis.
Next, make sure not to criticize your dog if this happens.
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12 They Might Start Having Difficulties In The Bathroom
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The American Kennel Club warns that there are many reasons why elderly dogs can suddenly begin to have changes in bathroom behavior. These causes range from neurological imbalances to loss of muscle strength.
Whether your dog isn't going or doesn't seem to be keeping it, the best course of action starts with a trip to the vet. Determining the underlying cause will determine the best course of action, whether it be changing their diet or going back to the diaper days of dogs.
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13 They May Need More Grooming
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Integrative veterinarian Jodi Morgan explained to Chewy why grooming is important as a dog ages. First, they may not be as resilient as they used to be, which means they can't get to all the same areas when they're trying to take care of themselves.
Furthermore, a dog suffering from incontinence may need to keep their fur short in certain areas for hygiene purposes. Finally, frequent grooming gives the owner a chance to notice any lumps that might be cause for concern.
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14 They Still Love Picnics
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Although large dogs may not be as active as they used to be, this does not mean that they do not like to be outside. Dogs have individual preferences when it comes to being around humans and other dogs, so it is important to respect their comfort levels.
Whether they are naturally social or wary butterflies, it is essential to keep their social habits as stable as possible despite any age-related challenges. Doing so helps make them happy and boost their value.
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15 Take notice of behavioral changes
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The American Animal Hospital Association encourages pet owners to note behavioral changes in their dogs and bring up the topic at their next wellness check. If your pet seems uncharacteristically angry, there is a reason for it.
Your vet can help you discover the cause of these behaviors and can suggest a plan of action. Changing your dog's behavior may result from pain or discomfort that can be relieved with early intervention.
Then, you may be surprised to hear that your dog can benefit from this human habit.
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16 They may need more dental attention
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The American College of Veterinary Dentistry estimates that most dogs show signs of gum disease by the age of three. Without proper preventative care, your older dog can become susceptible to oral diseases, infections, and pain.
Furthermore, the American Kennel Club warns that untreated dental disease can lead to tooth loss, jaw damage, and even heart disease. In addition to professional dental cleaning, the AKC suggests trying dental flossing and chewing wipes and brushing their teeth with dog toothpaste.
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17 Watch Out For Changes In Their Body
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As your dog becomes less active, it is normal for him to gain a little weight. However, if they gain too much weight, they can start to exacerbate other problems and put more stress on their aging joints.
On the other hand, canines that have suddenly lost a lot of weight may show signs of kidney or thyroid disease. In addition to their weight, pay attention to any lumps or skin growths that have recently arisen and show them to your vet.
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18 Their diet may need adjustments
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With all the changes that large dogs can experience, it should come as no surprise that you may need to change what you eat. The AAHA notes that some canine medical conditions can be managed simply by feeding your dog a nutrient-specific diet.
Since your vet has medical training and an awareness of your dog's unique background, he or she will be able to advise what to feed your dog. Changing their diet can be a daunting process, but it's worth it.
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20 They Can Benefit From Dietary Supplements
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If changes in your dog's diet are a major accomplishment, your vet may suggest adding some supplements to his routine to balance any nutritional needs. Fish oil is a popular choice for elderly dogs because it helps with heart and joint health.
For dogs with bathroom problems, digestive enzymes and probiotics may help restore digestive function. It is best to discuss these options with your vet to ensure that your dogs have the highest possible quality of life.
Watch out for these signs of a weak immune system.
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21 They may become more susceptible to infection
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If you notice that your senior dog seems to be getting more infections than they used to, it could be related to their immune system. As with humans, older canines may not have as strong an immune system as they once did.
This makes it even more important to keep them up to date with vaccinations and other preventative treatments, such as heartworm and flea medications. Supplements and a high-quality diet are other ways to keep your dog's immune system working.
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22 Pay attention to their wounds
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According to the Merch Veterinary Manual, there are a variety of factors that can slow the healing of your pet's wounds. Some examples include malnutrition, anemia, and obesity. Since senior dogs can be more susceptible to certain diseases and/or a weak immune system, it is important to keep an eye on their wounds.
If you notice that they are not recovering as expected, be sure to contact your vet and tell them. They may want to do some tests to rule out the possibility of an underlying disease.
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23 They may become more sensitive to temperature
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According to PetMD, older dogs are not able to regulate their temperature as well as younger dogs. This means that they are more likely to get things like heat stroke and hypothermia.
To make sure that your senior dog is not only healthy but also comfortable, make sure to keep him in a cool environment on hot days and group him in the cold. Keep in mind that the temperature tolerance it was a few years ago may not be the same today.
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24 They will most likely have poor eyesight
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Many dogs develop poor eyesight as they age, but it may not be as easy to tell as you think. One of the most common causes of blindness in dogs is cataracts, which appear as clouds in their eyes.
Other possibilities include tumors, high blood pressure, untreated infections, and more. The AKC warns that your dog's symptoms of blindness can be as subtle as his reluctance to jump on the couch. Pay close attention to your pet's behavior and be sure to modify activities if he becomes visually impaired.
Then, you may need to change the way you communicate with your dog.
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25 They do not listen to your commandments either
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The AKC writes that hearing loss in older dogs is often due to degenerative changes to the nerves in the ear. The first thing you might notice is that your furry friend seems to be ignoring your commands.
Another sign is when the noise no longer attracts their attention. If these signs appear, it is important to mention them to your vet. If your dog is losing its hearing, she may become more dependent on hand signals as a form of communication.
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26 They May Get Confused More Easily
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With all the changes big dogs can go through, it's no wonder they can become confused. From the loss of movement, vision, and hearing to cognitive illnesses, canines can become unsure of themselves and their surroundings.
That's why it's especially important to keep a close eye on your dog as he gets older. Additionally, avoid rearranging furniture and consider blocking the stairwell to prevent your pet from bumping into something or falling.
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27 Ordinary tasks can become difficult
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Previously simple tasks such as jumping on the bed can become almost impossible for large dogs. To accommodate your aging pet, consider getting dog grades or a ramp to help them navigate more easily.
Also, make sure that you and the guests are extra aware of your dog because they may not hear or see you, making it difficult for them to stay out of the way. Finally, make sure items such as blankets or dog toys are easy for them to retrieve.
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28 They love your love!
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Last but not least, remember that your senior dog still loves your affectionately as much as he did when he was a puppy. As their abilities gradually fade away, the only thing they want to know has remained the same: your love and appreciation.
Include them in as many activities as possible, even if it just means lounging on the couch every evening. The dogs will stick to your side until the bitter end, so be sure to return the favor.